Baby boy, my sweet little man Jayden, blessed us with his debate at 41 1/2 weeks gestation. He was 6 pounds 2 ounces and 19 inches long.
I had planned on formula feeding him, until about when I was 5 months pregnant. Something inside of me changed, and I had this irresistible urge to breast feed. And not only, "I will try breast feeding" type mentality, but a "I'm definitely breastfeeding no matter what it takes" mentality.
I immediately jumped into research mode and looked up all the benefits of breastfeeding, which only sold me more into the desire to exclusively breastfeed.
I then researched how to be successful at breastfeeding, and eventually pumping my milk. I wanted to make sure I would have no issues, and have no issues with supply.
I researched everything from how to, diet, and life styles.
This is what I have learned:
1) Eat oatmeal every morning for breakfast, not only does it give you a good amount of Iron, but it also pushes some of that iron that breastfed babies need into your breastmilk.
2) When pumping, pump NO LESS than 15 mins per breast.
3) When pumping, pump both breasts at each pumping session.
4) Massage your breast all over, prior, during and after to stimulate breast flow and milk production.
5) Smear a little of baby's saliva on breast, it stimulates milk production.
6) They have an insert that goes into the breast shield part of the pump that massages all areas of the breast as you are pumping, I highly suggest getting one.
7) Eat every 2 hours, even small snacks, the more calories you pack in (Within the appropriate amounts) the better milk production is.
8) If your baby is not nursing every 2-3 hours, make sure you are pumping.
9) Your milk works over time at night, so a good nights sleep, although difficult sometimes, is a must! SO, that means get on daddy's case to help you sleep AT LEAST in 3 hour stretches, in order for your milk to ramp up. Studies have shown that women who can get 3 consecutive hours of sleep at night at least twice a night have better milk production.
10) Avoid TOO many carbs, and take in as much protein as possible.
For more help and information try these sites:
kellymom.com
breastfeeding.com
babycenter.com key word search breastfeeding
and there is a support group for breastfeeding on cafemom.com
Jayden was exclusively breastfeed until 4 months old. He had nothing but breastmilk. This was very important to me.
In fact he still gets his breast milk, we plan to still give him breast milk one way or another until he self weans, or age two.
Stay tuned for the next stage of food, but first, some tips on things that are worth the money and somethings that are worth skipping.
I'm that kind of Mother....
I'm the type of mother that will research something as long as it takes. I'm that mother that has to be informed, read reviews, take the advice of the Pediatrician and the Academy of Pediatrics Association. Yes, I'm the mother that has learned from other mothers what not to do, and what to do. I have learned what is good to purchase, and what is a waste of time and money.
I believe in a balanced sleep, play, eat schedule. I believe in a balanced diet. Most importantly I believe in following your guts and being on top of your child's clues.
I don't believe in having to call the pediatrician for every little thing. I believe I can do most of the foot work by research online. I want to be informed so I constantly check recalls, and check toys out before giving them to my son.
My son by no means lives in a box, but I will provide for him, and keep him safe when I can. After all, he is a child, and children will be children, isn't that the point of having a good childhood?
I'm not a super mom, I can't get everything done, but I have managed to get a good solid routine down for just about everything, that leaves plenty of time for me to play with my son and take him on play dates and adventures. Leaves me plenty of time to work on my passion and home business. No, I'm just a mom that found what works best for her family.
I cloth diaper and sometimes when it's more convenient I disposable diaper, make my own home made baby food, and sometimes I buy store brand baby food. I breastfeed, because I believe in giving my child every possible good start I can. I do cry it out for bed time and naps when called for. I read every day to my child. I believe in teaching my child young about good manners, habits, and most importantly about God. I do not co sleep because it forms hard to break habits. I do not believe in night lights, because it also forms poor habits. I do give my son a paci because it helps with his teething, and when he's just wanting to be fussy; we joke and call it our mute button.
I'm not your typical stay at home mom, or house wife, I'm so much more.
In this blog you will venture through my first year as a mother. It will detail what I have researched. It will details nutritional habits for my son, growth toys and products. It will detail all that is important to a mother.
So enjoy and I hope to learn from you and perhaps you can learn from me. Yes, I'm neurotic, I make schedules, calendars, and detailed nutritional guides. I want the best for my son, nothing less will suffice.
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